In Memory Of James Scott Terrill
It is with a heavy heart that I report the news of James Scott Terrill’s passing. We received a comment, late July 4th, from a reader who informed us of Scott’s suicide. I would like to say that we have no confirmation that it was, indeed, a suicide. All that was found, regarding this tragedy, was an obituary from Georgetown News:
James Scott Terrill, age 37, died Friday, July 4, 2008, in Georgetown.He was born in Lexington on April 6, 1971, to Margaret Kenley Terrill Ng, of Georgetown, and the late Charles Ralph Terrill. He was a member of Safe Harbor Baptist Fellowship in Georgetown.
Survivors in addition to his mother include a stepfather, Raymond Ng, of Georgetown; two children, Lane Joseph Terrill and James Tate Terrill, both of Georgetown; two brothers, John Terrill, of Louisville, and Daniel Ng, of Georgetown; and two stepbrothers, Lester Ng, of Kansas City, and Chilton Ng, of Savannah, Ga.
Graveside services will be at 10:30 a.m. Wednesday, July 9, 2008, at Georgetown Cemetery with Pastor Dwayne Russell officiating. Honorary pallbearers will be his brothers. Visitation will be Tuesday, July 8, 2008, from 6 to 8 p.m. at Tucker, Yocum & Wilson Funeral Home.
In lieu of flowers donations may be made to Safe Harbor Baptist Fellowship, Building Fund, 131 N. Broadway St. Georgetown, KY 40324.
I do not have any other details, as of yet. I do know that his family, especially his two sons, must be in a world of shock and hurt. I offer my family’s condolences and prayers for peace from the Heavenly Father.
Source: Georgetown News
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18 opinions for In Memory Of James Scott Terrill
Sue Doe-Nim
Jul 6, 2008 at 11:22 am
I was taught that suicide is the one unforgivable sin.
Jacqui C.ac
Jul 6, 2008 at 4:41 pm
I am not sure who your instructor was, but in my education, scholars commenting on the subject of suicide really are not conclusive of their opinion on suicide. You did not know said person. I did not know Scott very well, either. It is not, nor will it ever be, our job to judge others. We do not know what was in his head or heart at the time of his death. Please re-evaluate your opinions and comments before you incorrectly state a fact and/or an opinion.
that girl
Jul 7, 2008 at 8:29 am
How sad and disturbing. It just makes me so sad for the boys and his family. I hope it was an accident and not a suicide.
Sue Doe-Nim
Jul 7, 2008 at 1:41 pm
Sorry darlin’ can’t be incorrect on an opinion and it was what I was taught.
I’m sad for the kids and pissed that he was so clearly exploited.
Someone Who Cared
Jul 7, 2008 at 4:44 pm
Screw you sensationalistst! How DARE you not care for the family! This is his ONLY surviving Full Brother. You only know 1/4 of the so called man that was James SCOTT Terrill. PISS on you all and the TERRIBLE gold-digging leach that leaked the information!
pray for the family
Jul 7, 2008 at 7:01 pm
My thoughts and prayers go out to Scott’s family and friends. I knew Scott from way back and recently caught back up with him thru the kids school. Scott was always a good guy. Please remember that Scott’s family and friends are going thru a difficult time and please show them respect. Praying and thinking of you - Rest in peace
kadi
Jul 7, 2008 at 7:10 pm
Dear “Someone Who Cared”~
Sir, nobody but you leaked information. You are the one who left the comment about Scott’s suicide, on the blog that night.
Who is being a sensationalist? I reported the story to our readers because I felt that the truth should be known, instead of letting rumors circulate. I did not intend the post to make Scott’s family upset. I only reported the facts and what you, yourself told us. I feel saddened for the boys. I care very much that two boys are now without a mother and father.
It was odd to me that you left a comment with so much information, so shortly after it happened. It concerened me so I reported it to the police after you refused to respond to my attempt to contact you.
I apologize for any offense committed.
Gayla McCord
Jul 7, 2008 at 7:21 pm
It is very sad when something like this happens. I too was taught from an early age that suicide was an unforgivable sin - however, as I’ve gotten older and see what mental illness can do to so many - I just don’t think it’s possible to say that suicide is an unforgivable sin in all cases.
I’m not saying Scott had mental illness, but something must have been very disturbing in the man’s life.
Now all we can do is pray for the family that they may eventually know peace in a very large empty world that’s been left behind. So many unanswered questions for a lifetime to come.
I do believe suicide is a very selfish act and can’t imagine being so very desperate that one would feel they had absolutely no alternative.
Kay Shankland
Jul 7, 2008 at 7:30 pm
Yes, I have an opinion about your statement that you “care very much that two boys are not without a mother and father.” Allow me to correct you, please. These boys have never been without a mother, they have always had one. And, you saw only one side of the story. Their mother is a wonderful, loving mother - you see, I know because I am their mother’s mother. So rest assured, that these boys will grow up in a loving, happy home, with family and extended family that love them dearly. I would ask, however, that you and your readers keep the family in your prayers. And remember that what you see on television is not always the true picture. The children I saw in your episode on television were nothing like the children I know. When these children are with their mother, with me or with Scott’s family, they are well behaved, and typical of what you would expect from a 6-year old or 12-year old. Again, please keep the family in your prayers.
Thank You.
Maternal Grandmother of the Lane and Tate
kadi
Jul 7, 2008 at 8:30 pm
Kay~
Thank you for your side of the story. I very well understand that the 43 minutes of air time of only a fraction of what is the whole truth. I know because my family was also on Supernanny.
I’m sorry to imply that they do not have a mother. I am also sorry that the parent that had custody and did not leave the family, is now gone. I sincerely hope that your daughter will be able to carry out both roles, for the sake of her sons who deserve a loving, loyal parent.
We are praying and will continue to do so. My condolences are with you, your family and Scott’s family.
Brian McAfee
Jul 7, 2008 at 9:27 pm
I, for one, am very saddened by this news. I know all too well how hard it is to raise kids on your own. I pray for his kids…that they will grow healthy and strong despite this tragedy. He was a good man, I talked with him several times and was glad to have known him.
Kimberly
Jul 7, 2008 at 9:29 pm
I had only known Scott for a short time, but from what I knew, he was a wonderful man and very caring father. No one can judge what him for what he went through. He contacted me right before it happened and from his own words, he had no ill will towards his children’s mother and stated to me that “at least he knew his kids would have a wonderful stepfather”. Yes, it is a tragedy to eveyone who knew him, but there is nothing that can be done now, except to pray for the family and hope they make it through this by sticking together. My thoughts and prayers are with all Scott’s family and especially the boys.
Julie
Jul 8, 2008 at 12:37 pm
See this website…
http://www.georgetownnews.com/articles/2008/07/08/breaking_news/doc4872de8ac10d1195798289.txt
christy
Jul 8, 2008 at 3:41 pm
I personally don’t think God would ever keep someone out of Heaven for being so sad that they thought suicide was the answer. I think God knows hearts not rules.
JAJ
Jul 8, 2008 at 3:43 pm
I have been talking to Scott for a few weeks now. He seemed like a very loving father and good person. I am deeply sadden by his death and I am sicken at the fact that I didn’t feel like he was depressed or sadden in any way. I wish I could of picked up on this in his voice or emails and maybe I could of helped in some way.
God bless those little boys. I lost my dad when I was in my twenties and it still hurts to this day. I will pray for the whole family. God bless the Terrill family.
JAJ, Lexington, KY
Angela from Corbin
Jul 9, 2008 at 7:58 am
It is with deepest sympthay of reading about Scottt. The time I spent with him you would have never guessed that he could ever been to that point in his life. I just wished I had known he was to that point. I know he loves his boys and who are we to judge about his death. It also says in the bible that there is no sin greater than another and we are saved by grace.
Tammy Hardwick
Jul 12, 2008 at 12:09 pm
I would like to introduce myself….I am Lane and Tate’s mother. First and foremost I want to express my most sincere and deepest appreciation for the amazing outpouring of love, affection, thoughts and prayers that have been extended to our family in this overwhelmingly sad time of the loss of Lane and Tate’s father, Scott Terrill. Second, I want to assure everyone that these children will be loved and cared for by myself, my soon-to-be-husband (whom Scott thought so very much of), both our families, Scott’s family (whom have never been anything but wonderful to all of us), and an extended network of friends, church, and community. We are, each and every one, not only loyal and loving, but dedicated and committed. Scott was a good man, but a tortured soul, and has been most of his life. God has taken him home, he is at peace. Scott and I had a good relationship, especially in these last two or so years, and I only wished the best for him, contrary to what may have been portrayed or believed. We shared joint custody and I have never NOT been a part of the children’s lives. I simply prefer to keep a low profile. We share the best memories of Scott with the children and keep his memory alive. Above all, Scott loved the boys more than anything…..and we make sure that not a day goes by that they aren’t reminded of that. I am so very grateful for everyone’s generosity, support, thoughts and prayers. I cannot fully express my gratitude in words, for there are no words. Please continue to pray for us.
Sincerely,
Tammy
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